My Arranged Marriage


I knotted myself in arranged marriage previous month on April 28, 2013. Like many of you , I also had many questions about marrying a girl that is totally stranger, called arranged marriage.

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In our eastern world culture, love marriages are often discouraged and are taken as very rude by either family of boy or a girl. And it is the utmost desire of our parents that they may use this right to choose the partners of their kids. ( May be this sounds weird to you, but thats true).

It has been more than a month that I am continously thinking and observing my relationship with my newly married wife, to whom I never knew before. We never met at any gathering or party session and were totally blind about each others interests, likes or dislikes. For me it was really a gamble to marry a totally stranger.

I have found her very loving , caring, understanding and a wife who keeps his husband at top of the list. One good thing about arrange marriage is that you both remain at an equal position as you haven’t committed or have said big things , before you were marrying. So there are less expectations at both sides.

As we live in combined family system, its very necessary for us that our parents are happy with our partner. And when they are who decides whom we are marrying makes it easy to live a happy life.

Arrange marriage normally takes place in a social community from which you belong. If you are rich then they will select rich class and same is with poor to poor.

I am not advocating whether which one is better, but my point of view is this , if your spouse is loving and caring, understands you then its better to have arranged marriage with the consensus of your parents.

Its just like to be heaven if you have a wife that loves you and provides you physical and mental peace and happiness.

My all the doubts and reservations are now disappeared after living with her.

May our relationship , love and trust remain as it is today, forever.!

Writing Dilemmas !!


 

Today I came to believe that writing is itself an art. It isn’t easy to write something down. To shape thoughts into words need a talent. I also am lacking this quality. I want to be a good writer as its vital for me to transform my thoughts into words in order to reach out to the outer world.

Firstly I am trying to read as much as I can like reading blogs, reading newspapers, books, auto biographies.

One thing that is common in all popular blogs and books is that the author has met something very miserable or struggling that has some sad and emotional touch. My life, in general, going very smooth comprising normal routine.

But somehow I will learn and enlarge focus of my mind to think out of the box and write that my readers may like to read.

Till I am not quitting , I wont be a looser! Right ! 🙂

Note: Attached picture is googled! .

The Economic Reason for Having Just One Child


Though Provoking. Give it a thought please and do share your point of view.

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One recent night, my daughter Dahlia and I popped out for pizza, and while we were chatting over our slices, CBSEvening News came on the television suspended over the counter. We sat transfixed by a segment on a massive number of homeless families that have settled in a makeshift community in the California desert. Dahlia chewed thoughtfully as she watched a father tell the reporter about how he had worn a tie to work until six months ago, when he lost everything and had no choice but to move there with his three kids. Then she shifted her eyes to me and asked, “Mama, that won’t be us because there’s only one of me instead of three?”

She’s on to something. According to the USDA, a child born in 2011 will cost an average of $234,900 to raise to age 18. If your household income is over $100,000, you can…

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Waqar

Freelancer, Writer, Translator